Who?

Hello my little sassy sleuths!

Here is the mystery that I need you to think about deeply today. Who are you doing this for?  Doing what you ask. Well, pretty much anything. Who are you trying to get into shape for? Who are you making your life decisions for? Who are you trying to impress?

Now, the perfect world answer is for yourself of course!  But when you look at your words and actions, do they reflect this answer to the riddle? I know mine don't.  Today I went out to find information. And while I found that information, I pondered out loud that I'd like to do this but if I did others may not approve.  And, looking back at me, the person asked the simple question; "Who are you doing this for?"  To quote an over-used phrase, mind blown!

Some days you forget you exist. We do things because others want it or expect you to be a certain way; and we don't want to rock the boat. And not to offend, but some conformity is ok. Society would not function if we all did whatever we wanted instead of caring about others.  BUT, there comes a time and a place when you need to do stuff for you. The hard part is deciding when to go with the flow or if it is time to rock that boat.

And since I'm having a hard time with that myself right now, I'd love to hear how you guys make those big decisions. I am always willing to listen to suggestions. I may not heed them, but I am always ready to listen.

Until I finally make up my mind,

UltimateJinx007